Send the kids to grandma’s, because it’s time to mix it up!

When’s the last time you had a really hot date night? Like a date night your girlfriends would be jealous of. It’s been a while, hasn’t it? Don’t lie! Look, I get it. Life really does get in the way. After years of marriage, it’s very easy to get into a rut. You’re busy working, cleaning, doing endless loads of laundry, shopping for groceries, feeding your family, keeping up with friends, leaping tall buildings in a single bound.

Whether you have kids or not, life is very busy, and as wives, we have a lot of responsibilities. It’s easy to get into a rut of the messy homeless bun and sweats. Have you and your man lost that spark? If the answer is yes, it’s time to revitalize your relationship. Here’s a few ways to do that TONIGHT!



1. Send him racy selfies!

What husband doesn’t want naked pictures of his wife? Snapping a selfie right after getting out of the shower and texting it to him will certainly interrupt his work day and make him think of you! Don’t send it to the the wrong person though. I hear that’s bad.


2. Buy some new lingerie & get dolled up

How long has it been since you’ve gotten all dressed up to go to bed with your hubby? They notice when we make an effort, believe me! Go to the mall and buy some sexy black lingerie, and don’t forget the thigh-high stockings and stilettos. Put the extra effort into your hair and makeup. Spritz the perfume. When you walk into the bedroom looking like that, he’ll definitely notice! If you don’t have time to go shopping, or if lingerie just isn’t your thing, never fear. Grab his fave button-up shirt, and wear ONLY that. Believe me, that’s a powerful thing. He may just say, “That’s my new favorite shirt!”

3. Cook a romantic dinner … in your underwear.

Now that you’ve got something sexy to wear, put it on and cook him a special, romantic dinner. Our grandmothers told us, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” It’s true. It’s proven that men’s “Love Language” involves being cared for by their wives (cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children).  When he sees his dolled-up, sexy wife putting in the effort to cook him a special meal that’s just for him, he’ll feel how much you love him. Plus, you’ll be almost naked, and you know he’ll love that!


4. Take it outside

You don’t have to be crazy and make whoopie in a restaurant bathroom (please don’t because there’s doodie parasites) to have a hot experience. Even going into your back yard will seriously spice things up. Grab two sleeping bags and zip them together. Pretend you’re camping and spend some time outside relaxing, talking, and looking at the stars.


5. Take it on the road

Get a hotel room or AirBnB. I personally prefer AirBnB because it’s more private, larger, and has a kitchen. It’s usually easy to find a place to stay in your home town. It only takes a few minutes to browse AirBnB and find a cute, romantic little place. Even if you don’t have kids, this really helps your relationship. And this is REALLY important if you work from home. I don’t really feel free from my job (and therefore my stresses) if I’m at home. Stress really kills romance, so getting away from that helps.



Bonus Tip: Email me so we can set up a boudoir session!

All of my boudoir clients have raved about how it spiced up their relationship. Boudoir is not just a gift for him, it’s a gift for you. Doing a boudoir session will give you confidence and get you in touch with your sensuality. Confidence is very sexy!

Check out what some of my clients have said:

A_M_A_Z_I_N_G_! The album and pictures were beautiful and he flipped when he opened it. In fact, I caught him a few times since peeking it through it” ~ Juli

As a mother, this wasn’t something I had ever considered doing, but now that I have I would tell every woman and mother to do it because it’s an awesome and empowering feeling to see yourself as beautiful and sexy!” ~ Sarah

I contacted the only photographer I knew I could trust – Dawn Kelly. Dawn made me feel beautiful even with all my imperfections. She helped me to relax and see that I am a beautiful person and I should let that show.” ~ April

Check out my boudoir gallery, then shoot me an email at I’d love to help you find your sexy!